Accepting

When we truly embrace that we indeed create our own reality, and that means everything- no exceptions - and we actually accept that the reality we are living was created by us, consciously or unconsciously, and we can accept it all without beating ourselves up, or judging, then we start to pave the way for accepting the really groovy things that we create as well. In other words, the "pain" provides a training ground which can help us build our capacity to accept the beyond awesomeness that is available to us.